Recently I wrote that the world is in need of heroes, spiritual warriors, and bodhisattvas.
Given the state of things, especially in recent weeks, it appears that WE must be the heroes, the spiritual warriors, and bodhisattvas that we seek and that the world needs. We cannot wait, as most of us have done in the past, for spiritual or secular leaders to rise up and rally, to galvanize and gather on our behalf.
This is a good thing! It is incredibly inspirational to see hundreds of thousands, and in some cases millions, of people around the globe standing up for the oppressed, the marginalize, and the most vulnerable – speaking truth to power with words and actions alike.
There has been a call. Have you felt it? The misdeeds and harmful actions of those in power has brought forth, for many, an almost instinctual – from the bones – reaction to resist and work towards an alternative. And it does seem that what we have perhaps taken for granted in the past, cannot be taken for granted any more, but must be worked for and served.
People are in need and suffering. We can offer ourselves – our talents, our skills, our words, our hands and feet, and our hearts – in service to relieving and healing that suffering. This is what many Buddhists participate in, the Bodhisattva Vow, “Sentient beings are numberless; I vow to save them all.” Of course we cannot save anyone, much less everyone, but within this vow is the recognition of self-lessness, of interdependence – the idea that I am because you are and what happens to you also affects me. So, meditate on the softness of our heart, the tenderness that rises up when we think of a loved one, of someone dear. We then extend this good will that has arisen toward others, knowing that they are someone’s loved one and they too are dear to someone.
None of us escape this journey unscathed by pain and suffering. We all will experience illness, aging, loss, and eventually that great mystery that is death. Isn’t this enough to draw out empathy and find common ground and open our hearts? Our love and care when put into action is compassion…and in the current state of things we need some FIERCE compassion. If we want our cause to be successful, we cannot be consistently motivated by anger. We will burn out and burn everything else with us. Our motivation MUST come from a place of love and fierce compassion working towards the noble causes of justice and peace.
There has been a lot of fierce compassion lately. I saw it at the Women’s March and I’ve seen it in subsequent marches and peaceful protests as people stand, walk, and speak in the footsteps and voices of heroes, spiritual warriors, and bodhisattvas.
This can be and has been EXHAUSTING. And when we are exhausted and diminished, we can get angry, irritable and then our words and actions may move from being beneficial to harmful. Ends do not justify means. The means are the end. We must be what we seek.
So, how can we put that fierce compassion into action, if we are diminished, if we are exhausted?
When we take a bodhisattva vow, or make any commitment to serve others, to work towards an end to suffering, we must also include ourselves. Self-care so that we can care for others. This is what makes this a spiritual act. Self-care only, is simply self-help. This can be beneficial and good, but I am talking about something different here. Self-care so that one can also care for others is a spiritual practice (even if you are agnostic, humanist, or atheist – no need to belong to a specific religion or belief system). We practice as a benefit to ourselves and others, to reduce suffering in the world – even for those who are supposed “enemies” who may be on the opposite side of issues, even seeking our harm to support their desire to be “safe.” Of course, none of us are safe if any community or group of people are scapegoated as “other.” To paraphrase a quote by Diana Winston, “…there is a big difference between loving our enemies (those who’d harm us or others) and letting them get away with their wrongdoing (harmful actions).” [additions mine ~j]
As a Buddhist (though one does NOT need to be Buddhist), as a meditator for the past 9 years, and as a meditation instructor I suggest and stand behind (…or is it sit behind) a regular meditation practice, as a beneficial support to self-care, so that one can also care for others.
A friend of mine recently asked me to share information about meditation practice with others in a post, because she has seen what many of us have seen – people exhausted and diminished by a deluge of negativity and overwhelming changes from those in power, pulling the ground out from under us. She felt it would be a benefit and I do as well.
A note regarding meditation practice. It isn’t a quick fix. This may be disappointing, but the goal isn’t to attain some blissful or peaceful state (but what’s wrong with that?!). When we practice meditation, we are practicing to be present in this moment – our mind and body together in one place – no matter the situation or what we are feeling. In this way, with consistent practice, our hearts begin to naturally open and build a capacity to be with life as it is, without immediately reacting to it. We are making space and in that space, we have the ability to choose our words and actions thereby benefitting the world, rather than adding to its suffering. A short period of sitting every day is more beneficial than a long period of sitting once a week. Don’t be discouraged. After 9 years of meditating, I have noticed growth in my capacity to be with life and have seen my heart open more and more. I wouldn’t have sought out instruction to be a teacher, if this weren’t the case. And it is humbling, because other than committing to sitting and breathing, I have done nothing else to make this happen. This is a nod to our true nature, which I believe is essentially good, that when we simply sit and allow the noise to fall away, to arise and then pass, the goodness of our hearts eventually comes forth.
I have recorded a brief 10-minute guided meditation as an introduction and instruction for you.
If you are new to meditation, I would also like to suggest my teacher’s book: Start Here Now: An Open-Hearted Guide to the Path and Practice of Meditation by Susan Piver.
You may also want to connect with her teaching and instruction online at The Open Heart Project.
If you are interested in further exploration of the intersection of contemplative practice and social action/service, I’d also like to suggest The Road Home: A Contemporary Exploration of the Buddhist Path by Ethan Nichtern, who is also a teacher I admire and follow. The last few chapters explore this more deeply.
Ethan has also written a wonderful 7-Point Practice Plan for Engaged Mindfulness to assist in self-care as we care for others in this difficult time.
Wishing you all well as we journey together.
May all beings be happy and at ease.
May all beings be free from suffering.
This is what we’ve been practicing for: the situations where the practice doesn’t come easily. When the winds of change reach hurricane force, our inner refuge of mindfulness, concentration, and discernment is the only thing that will keep us from getting blown away.
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fear constricts, freezes, suffocates and enslaves life. often expressing itself through aggression and violence. it alienates us, enforcing the illusion of separateness. fear runs counter to life.
but love, the very ground of our being, opens us. with practice and cultivation it strengthens us, equipping us to take further steps into vulnerability and mystery. love reminds us of our interdependence and interconnection with each other and all life. with love as our foundational practice, we embody understanding, generosity, patience, compassion and kindness. this embodiment of love and recognition of our interdependence and interconnectedness is what gives our lives gratitude and joy.
it is this life of love that can be our place of refuge in a world filled with change and dramatic events. even as the storms rage and swirl around us, we can be a still beacon of light for all who need it.
#fear #aggression #violence #separateness #illusionofseparateness #life #love #interdependence #interconnectedness #practice #meditation #generosity #understanding #patience #compassion #kindness #vulnerability #openheart #gratitude #joy #JMW #TheMettaGarden
as I grow in this practice, I’m beginning to become aware that “reverence” begins even at the cellular level and is born out of gratitude.
am I grateful for the cells in my body? that I may see? that I may walk and write? that I may eat and digest? that I may think and speak?
in my gratitude, do I honor these cells? do I smile to them, breathing in and out, as Thich Nhat Hanh says? do I watch what I feed them, including the thoughts and emotions I cling to?
do I see them as the life that they are and honor that life within them? a life they are living, making it so that I may live?
this passing body is more them, than it is “me.” have we thought about that?
and we can ask ourselves, how am I honoring this gift? how am I embodying this gratitude I feel swelling in my chest? how am I living with reverence in the short time I am here? and how can I extend this to others in this delicate, beautiful, passing life?
#reverence #life #gratitude #practice #peace #ThichNhatHanh #meditation #mindfulness #TheMettaGarden #JMW
broken open, heals the world.
dam breaks, water flows.
“Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold.” ~ Zelda Fitzgerald
“O, that my monk’s robe were wide enough to gather up all the suffering people in this floating world.” ~ Zen poet-monk Ryōkan
“The practice is never for ourselves alone.” ~ Joseph Goldstein
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“What is hell? I maintain that it is the suffering of being unable to love.” ~ Fyodor Dostoyevsky
“If you love, you will find so many occasions to be loving. If you are afraid, you will find so many occasions to be afraid.” ~ Osho
#Love #Fear #KnowLoveNoFear #LoveIsTheAnswer #perspective #wisdom #TheMettaGarden #JMWart #JMW